"No, I can't take you to your friend's house to play. I'm in the middle of waxing the kitchen floor..."
"Kids! Out of the kitchen! I'm trying to cook here!"
"Who made that mess in the living room? Clean it up! I don't have time to deal with this right now...."
Sound familiar? The stress of the holidays are approaching us all and real fast. Thanksgiving is over and as it took me a day or so to recoup from all the baking and cooking from the first family dinner, I'll soon be getting ready for another family Thanksgiving dinner this weekend.
Then once that will be done, it'll be time to start the shopping.
Oh the shopping.....
and more shopping.
What has happened to our holiday season that everyone has become too busy doing so many things all at once? What is the season really about these days? Family? Santa? Presents? What's the first thing your kids say when you ask them what Christmas really means?
The Reset Button
Maybe it's time to push the reset button in our lives. To go back to simpler times when family was the focus of the holiday season. Where it's special to find two gifts under the Christmas tree instead of only one... or none. Where moms and dads feel allowed to drop what they are doing to pay attention to the kids, even just for a few minutes.
Maybe it's time to let the guard down and make amends to those loved ones who have gotten lost. To forget the pride of who's fault is whose, to forget the past and move on to the present.
What is really important? To prove a point or let the holidays slip by in a blink?
Unexpected and Undeserved
This holiday season, my goal is to try to be more creative. To give a gift that's unexpected and maybe even undeserved. To someone who has wronged me or someone I need to find forgiveness in and give them a gift they don't expect or maybe they don't even deserve.
Instead of going shopping for that "one more gift", I'm going to try to find time instead. To create that last gift with time from the heart. I want to spend more time with my children without feeling hurried, to play a game with them, read a book and just snuggle in front of a good cartoon. To listen more instead of talking more. Pray more. I invite you to do the same this Christmas. Slow down and smell the cinnamon pine cones and take in all the blessings you have in your life. If it wasn't for Jesus being born, we wouldn't be celebrating Christmas. Don't forget the reason for this season.
Inspired by Pastor Nathan Custer, Columbia Heights United Methodist Church, 2013"He has shown you, O mortal, what is good.And what does the LORD require of you?To act justly and to love mercyand to walk humbly with your God." - Micah 6:8